Tobey

What can I do for you?

My coaching style is supportive, grounded, and thoughtful. I listen deeply, ask meaningful questions, and tailor our work to your goals and pace. Clients describe our sessions as insightful, supportive, and empowering - a space where progress feels meaningful and attainable.

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1 location(s) 6 certification(s) Affiliated with GORT since 2025

Tobey

1 location(s) 6 certification(s) Affiliated with GORT since 2025

You can contact me for the following

I support leaders, professionals, and expats navigating pressure, uncertainty, and increasing responsibility at work. If you’re dealing with challenges that feel complex or demanding, coaching offers a grounded space to think clearly, strengthen your leadership, and move forward with confidence.

Leadership & Professional Challenges

You’re leading others, but the pressure of expectations, decisions, and team dynamics can feel demanding. Common questions leaders bring to coaching:

I keep second-guessing myself – how do I feel more confident in my decisions?
How do I motivate and lead my team more effectively?
How do I communicate with clarity so expectations are clear?
I want to be taken seriously as a leader – where do I start?
How do I become the leader I know I can be?

Coaching offers a steady place to pause, reflect, and gain clarity about how to move forward with intention.

Stress, Overwhelm & Emotional Load

Even accomplished professionals reach a point where the constant pressure becomes too much. Questions clients often ask:

My mind won’t switch off – how do I stop feeling overwhelmed?
How do I handle the pressure without feeling depleted?
I’m trying to do everything – how do I set boundaries that actually work?
How do I regain a sense of balance and control?

Confidence, Clarity & Inner Strength

Beneath the surface, many leaders want to feel more grounded, capable, and aligned. Common concerns:

I want to trust my judgment instead of doubting myself.
I feel overlooked – how do I show my value?
I feel stuck and unsure of my next step – how do I find clarity?
How do I lead in a way that feels authentic to who I am?

I draw on reflection exercises and leadership frameworks when helpful, creating a thoughtful, supportive space to think clearly and make meaningful progress, so you can lead and live in a way that feels aligned with who you truly are.

A smiling psychologist interacting with a client during a coaching session.

THIS IS HOW I WORK

When we begin coaching together, you can expect a calm, steady, and focused space where you can step back from the pressure and think clearly. I listen closely, ask strategic questions, and help you make sense of the challenges, responsibilities, and decisions in front of you. Together, we clarify what truly matters, identify patterns that may be getting in your way, and define practical next steps that support your leadership and well-being. My coaching style is supportive but structured. I draw on leadership frameworks, reflection exercises, and practical tools when they add value, while ensuring every session is tailored to your goals, pace, and real-world context. Clients often tell me that coaching helps them shift from feeling overwhelmed to feeling more grounded, capable, and intentional in their choices. In our introductory session, we’ll explore what you’d like to achieve and ensure we’re a good match. Over time, you’ll gain clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of direction – allowing you to lead with steadiness, purpose, and perspective.

Business Coach
Expat coach
Leadership coach

My certifications

MBA (Rider University, Lawrenceville, NJ)
Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting (Rider University, Lawrenceville, NJ)
ICF Professional Certified Coach - PCC (International Coaching Federation)
Certified Life Purpose Coach (The Life Purpose Institute, San Diego, CA)
Certified Life Purpose Coach (The Life Purpose Institute, San Diego, CA)
CPA - Inactive (State of New Jersey)

IN ADDITION TO THE PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE COACHING CONVERSATION, I PRACTICE

Online coaching
Walking coaching
Coaching in nature

Other work experience

I bring over 30 years of senior finance leadership experience, including roles as CFO, VP of Finance, and Controller across manufacturing, distribution, medical devices, chemicals, and technology organizations. I’ve worked with multinational companies, private-equity-backed firms, and mid-sized growth and turnaround environments, leading strategic planning, financial management, and operational performance improvement. Throughout my career, I partnered closely with CEOs, Boards, and cross-functional leadership teams, and oversaw complex initiatives including ERP implementations, M&A integrations, divestitures, and enterprise-wide transformations.

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What others say about me

Tobey helped me gain clarity as a new leader, understand my style, and set healthier boundaries. Her tools improved my effectiveness and work–life balance. I continue to use her handouts when working with my team.
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Tobey helped me understand my role as a leader and apply simple, effective tools to strengthen my skills. Her examples and thoughtful questions empowered me to lead more intentionally. I highly recommend working with her.
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Tobey’s thoughtful questions and genuine care helped me gain clarity, confidence, and
meaningful progress far beyond my initial goals. I always left our sessions feeling grounded, capable, and understood. Her support created space for deep insight and lasting growth.
- client of Tobey

Tobey guided me through complex professional and personal challenges with warmth, intelligence, and deep presence. She helped me explore new perspectives and grow as both a leader and individual. I am truly grateful for her support.
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With Tobey’s guidance, my career direction became clear. Each session brought new
insights, shifting me from confusion to confidence. Her questions helped me think differently, understand my strengths, and identify the right next steps for my career.
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Tobey has a rare ability to unravel complex situations and reveal insights that shift your perspective. Her patience, positivity, and thoughtful guidance made our sessions supportive and transformative. I highly recommend her.
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Tobey’s skilled guidance helped me gain clarity, self-awareness, and confidence in my next steps. Her international experience made our conversations deeply relatable. I highly recommend her to expats and leaders navigating complex challenges.
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